Aurasexual, No More Basic Sex
No more lizard brain…
Where do I start? I haven’t written in a very long time and now it feels like the right time to talk about this wiring of our brain and sexuality. Lately, I have been receiving downloads from the universe, between; shroom trips, binaural beat sleeps and amazing meditations, I am starting to feel as one with my higher self, a feeling that is more felt than described. With that being said, I am now understanding the difference between our lizard survival brain, mammal brain and higher consciousness. When you unlock this consciousness there is no going back…
For awhile, I have dimmed my shine for men and friends, I have lowered my standards and burned my boundaries just to “fit in” and be socially/sexually acceptable. I have always been demisexual and I would do non “demisexual things” in my 20’s, in order to be a “regular gay guy” but little did I know until now that, the only validation I needed was from me. People that are not on my concious level, do not deserve my dick! A recent ex of mine went back and forth with me on how I cant have “sexual fun” as a demisexual. Now here is the thing, sexuality is a spectrum right?! Not all demisexual humans need to be married or cuffed to have sex! We can have a fun experience with human but as long as we have a mutual safe connection! I like to throw in sapiosexuality as well, I think the intelligence and human mind is such a turn on! Someone that is emotionally intelligent and mindfully aware can hit me up anytime! The thing is, I felt like I was still an outcast, why were majority of the men I slept with/dated stuck in this stage 2 (“Velvet Rage” by Alan Downs) of sex and gayness? So many humans are stuck on this instant gratification sexual experience and to me it is, honestly so basic!
I decided to create me own sexuality besides being queer, I am Aurasexual! I am someone that as a soul in an avatar enjoying the human experience, will experience humanistic things but will make sure my soul and aura are protected at all costs. Humans bodies and minds are wired with the lizard brain. We automatically wake up and do habitual things, have to go to the bathroom, the urge to climax and have sex, drink, eat and sleep. The thing is, once you are awaken on this planet and you are in tune with your higher self, you start unwiring a lot of these lizard habits. Yes, we are humans so urges come automatically, it really does take work and self awareness daily to be aware of what your high self wants. For me I am now tapped in to what my soul wants and deserves. As a lover of sex and experiences with a good aura and cuddles, of course one night stands and travel boyfriends are a part of the fun, but the thing that hits different is, not being so easy! I can still have fun, but your aura must be fucking amazing to have a fucking great time! The dating app culture, the insecure “anyone can cum in me culture”, the “I just need to fuck and let go for a 20 minute moment” culture, the instant gratification culture, the “my validation is based on dick count” culture , all have to go! This is the era of the Aurasexual experience and no more lizard brain basic gratification…
In the words of Beyoncè
“Comfortable in my skin
Cozy with who I am
Comfortable in my skin (cozy, cozy)
Comfortable in my skin
Feet up above your sins
I love myself, goddamn”.
When you truly love yourself, watch your standards of what you allow in you or on you ;), enjoy the higher and spiritual orgasms rather than the quick transactional climaxes, trust me, your orgasms will be wetter and better ❤.
Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0GxvETmpmcdvAknMVEuEFs?si=MetGKv0ESjmfQXAhqMtAqA
